DAOS-18388 client: handle timeout for CRT_OPC_PROTO_QUERY RPC

[Nasf-Fan]

Currently, the initial timeout for CRT_OPC_PROTO_QUERY RPC is only 3 seconds, it will help to get going more quickly when some rank(s) is down. But that increases the risk of query failure with timeout if there are only a few targets in the system and they may be busy or not ready in time when being queried.

The patch adds another one CRT_OPC_PROTO_QUERY RPC retry against the rank that has ever reported RPC timeout. Such retry will use default RPC timeout configuration instead of initial small value.

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[github-actions]

Ticket title is 'daos_rpc_proto_query() crt_proto_query()failed: DER_TIMEDOUT(-1011): 'Time out''
Status is 'In Progress'
https://daosio.atlassian.net/browse/DAOS-18388

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